Are you desperately trying to save your marriage but nothing seems to work?
Celebrity Marriage Therapists Show You How to Save Your Marriage Yourself — in Just 30 Days
Without needing your partner's participation, couples therapy, or spending thousands on counseling
If You're Reading This, Your Marriage Is Probably Breaking Your Heart
And you're terrified it might be too late.
Maybe last night, you lay there in the dark—inches away from your spouse but feeling completely alone. Maybe you tried to talk to them earlier, and within seconds it turned into another fight. Or worse... maybe they just stared at their phone and barely looked up.
You're exhausted. Emotionally drained. And you're starting to wonder if you'll ever feel close to them again.
But here's what you need to know:
You're not crazy. Your marriage isn't doomed. And you haven't failed.
You've just been doing what everyone tells you to do—and it doesn't work.
"We Just Need To Communicate Better." (No. You Don't.)
Let me guess what you've tried already:
You've tried talking. You sit them down. You try to explain how you feel. And within 30 seconds, they're defensive. Or they turn it back on you. Or they just... shut down completely.
You've suggested therapy. Maybe they refused. Maybe they said "we don't need that." Or maybe you went—and nothing changed. You sat there for weeks, and your therapist just nodded while you both blamed each other.
You've read the articles. "10 Ways to Reconnect With Your Spouse." "How to Fight Fair." "The 5 Love Languages." You tried it all. And your spouse didn't even notice.
You've changed yourself already. You stopped nagging. You gave them space. You tried being more affectionate. You cooked their favorite meal. You initiated date night.
And... nothing. They're still distant. Still defensive. Still checked out.
So now you're stuck thinking: "If they would just TRY. If they would just CARE. If they would just DO THEIR PART... then we could fix this."
And that's the lie that's keeping you trapped.
"We Just Need To Communicate Better." (No. You Don't.)
Let me guess what you've tried already:
You've tried talking. You sit them down. You try to explain how you feel. And within 30 seconds, they're defensive. Or they turn it back on you. Or they just... shut down completely.
You've suggested therapy. Maybe they refused. Maybe they said "we don't need that." Or maybe you went—and nothing changed. You sat there for weeks, and your therapist just nodded while you both blamed each other.
You've read the articles. "10 Ways to Reconnect With Your Spouse." "How to Fight Fair." "The 5 Love Languages." You tried it all. And your spouse didn't even notice.
You've changed yourself already. You stopped nagging. You gave them space. You tried being more affectionate. You cooked their favorite meal. You initiated date night.
And... nothing. They're still distant. Still defensive. Still checked out.
So now you're stuck thinking: "If they would just TRY. If they would just CARE. If they would just DO THEIR PART... then we could fix this."
And that's the lie that's keeping you trapped.
The Brutal Truth Nobody Tells You About Saving Your Marriage
Now imagine: What if you had responded COMPLETELY differently? What if instead of raising your voice, defending yourself, or shutting down...
you took a breath and said:
"Help me understand what you're feeling right now, I want to understand you, I really do."
Would the fight have continued exactly the same way? Or would something have... shifted?
Your spouse isn't your enemy. They're reacting to YOU the same way you're reacting to THEM.
They're defensive because they feel attacked. They withdraw because they feel criticized. They don't open up because they don't feel safe.
When you change YOU—when you become the person who breaks the cycle, who creates safety, who leads with curiosity instead of defensiveness—your spouse WILL follow.
Not immediately. Not magically. But they will.
Why Everything You've Tried Hasn't Worked (And What Actually Does)
I'm Bob. Licensed therapist for 23 years. And this is my wife, Sheri—also a licensed therapist with 12 years of experience.
Between us, we have 35 years of experience and we've worked with over 2,900 clients.
For 12 years, we ran The Clearview Center in Omaha where we had a waiting list for years because of how successful we were at saving marriages everyone else said were hopeless.
But more important than any of that?
We've been together since 2006. Married since 2008. And we don't fight.
We don't have the problems most couples have. We laugh hysterically every single day.
Not because we're "lucky." Not because we're therapists.
But because we both learned—the hard way—
what actually works.
My Story: 11 Years of Trying to Change the Wrong Person
I was married before Sheri. For 11 years.
And that marriage was miserable. We were extremely incompatible. Opposite in almost every way. We argued constantly.
For 11 years, I tried to fix US. I tried to make HER understand ME. I tried to change HER.
I read every book. We went to marriage counseling three different times. I did everything I could think of.
And you know what happened?
Nothing. Except more pain. More resentment. More distance.
Until finally, crying in my basement one night, I realized:
I was trying to change the wrong person.
And now it was too late—too much damage had been done.
When that marriage ended, I spent the next few years working on ME. Understanding myself. Understanding women. Healing my own wounds. Learning how relationships ACTUALLY work.
And when I met Sheri... everything was different.
My Story: 11 Years of Trying to Change the Wrong Person
I was married before Sheri. For 11 years.
And that marriage was miserable. We were extremely incompatible. Opposite in almost every way. We argued constantly.
For 11 years, I tried to fix US. I tried to make HER understand ME. I tried to change HER.
I read every book. We went to marriage counseling three different times. I did everything I could think of.
And you know what happened?
Nothing. Except more pain. More resentment. More distance.
Until finally, crying in my basement one night, I realized:
I was trying to change the wrong person.
And now it was too late—too much damage had been done.
When that marriage ended, I spent the next few years working on ME. Understanding myself. Understanding women. Healing my own wounds. Learning how relationships ACTUALLY work.
And when I met Sheri... everything was different.
Sheri's Story: Learning That Conflict Doesn't Mean Losing the Relationship
I grew up watching my parents' marriage fall apart. They never fought in front of me.
So when they suddenly divorced when I was a teenager, the lesson I learned was: If you have conflict with somebody, you lose the relationship.
For years, I avoided conflict at all costs. I became a people pleaser. I stayed in relationships that weren't right for me because I didn't know how to leave without an "excuse."
I let men control me because I thought that's what it meant to "get along."
I even attempted suicide at one point because I felt so trapped and hopeless.
But then I got great therapy. I learned how to accept myself. How to be assertive. How to express my emotions. How to handle conflict without the relationship ending.
And when Bob and I met, I had done the work on myself. Just like he had.
That's why our marriage works. Not because we're perfect. But because we both took responsibility for ourselves.
The One Thing Every Successful Couple Has In Common (That No One Talks About)
After working with thousands of couples, we discovered something that changed everything:
When we look at every successful couple we've ever worked with—couples who came to us in crisis but ended up thriving—there was ONE thing in common.
ONE of the two people decided:
"I'm going to change MYSELF NO MATTER WHAT MY SPOUSE DOES. I'm going to take responsibility for MY thinking, MY behavior, MY reactions... NO MATTER WHAT MY SPOUSE DOES."
Not both. Just one.
One person stopped waiting. Stopped demanding. Stopped trying to control their partner.
And the couples who DIDN'T make it? The ones still living together miserable?
They were waiting for the other person to change first.
Now, you're probably thinking: "Wait... are you telling me to just give in? To become a doormat?"
NO. Absolutely not.
Here's what I'm saying:
When you change how you show up, you change the entire dynamic.
You can INVITE your spouse to care. You can invite them to change. By YOU doing something differently.
When you do something DIFFERENT, they get confused. Now they need to think of a different way to respond.
Now the dynamic has changed.
The One Thing Every Successful Couple Has In Common (That No One Talks About)
After working with thousands of couples, we discovered something that changed everything:
When we look at every successful couple we've ever worked with—couples who came to us in crisis but ended up thriving—there was ONE thing in common.
ONE of the two people decided:
"I'm going to change MYSELF NO MATTER WHAT MY SPOUSE DOES. I'm going to take responsibility for MY thinking, MY behavior, MY reactions... NO MATTER WHAT MY SPOUSE DOES."
Not both. Just one.
One person stopped waiting. Stopped demanding. Stopped trying to control their partner.
And the couples who DIDN'T make it? The ones still living together miserable?
They were waiting for the other person to change first.
Now, you're probably thinking: "Wait... are you telling me to just give in? To become a doormat?"
NO. Absolutely not.
Here's what I'm saying:
When you change how you show up, you change the entire dynamic.
You can INVITE your spouse to care. You can invite them to change. By YOU doing something differently.
When you do something DIFFERENT, they get confused. Now they need to think of a different way to respond.
Now the dynamic has changed.
What Actually Happened When Chris & Star Stopped Waiting For Each Other To Change
Chris & Star Renfroe - Sidney, Nebraska
"We were arguing ALL THE TIME, and neither one of us really even heard the other! We came in reacting instead of understanding, keeping score instead of making deposits."
"With Bob's help, we've shifted from guarding ourselves to protecting our relationship as a team—learning to make deposits instead of withdrawals and to see vulnerability as connection, not weakness."
"We've learned to lean into curiosity instead of defensiveness and to appreciate how our personalities, once points of friction, now strengthen us as partners and teammates in life."
Here's what happened with Star and Chris:
Both had challenging lives that required them to defend themselves from real dangers. It was their natural stance—with everyone, including each other.
We did the complete compatibility assessment and they learned SO MUCH about themselves and each other.
One breakthrough moment: My spouse isn't doing this to annoy me. My spouse is doing this because this is who they ARE—how they're wired, how they're designed from DNA and life experiences and choices.
All of which the other can respect and understand.
That's when everything shifted.
Imagine Three Months From Now...
Your spouse smiles at you. A real smile. The kind you haven't seen in years.
You have a disagreement—but instead of it turning into a war, you both pause, you both listen, and you both feel HEARD. And it's over in 10 minutes instead of three days.
Your spouse says: "You seem different. I don't know what's changed, but... I like it. I feel closer to you."
You feel confident, secure, FREE in your relationship. Not walking on eggshells. Not keeping score.
You're laughing together again. Really laughing. The way you used to.
You look at your spouse and feel that warmth—that love—that you thought was gone forever.
That's what we're going to create together.
Not by focusing on your spouse.
By focusing on YOU—because changing YOU changes the relationship, and changing the relationship invites your spouse to follow along.
SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
The One-Person Marriage Transformation System
We've taken everything—EVERYTHING—we've learned in 35+ years, from working with over 2,900 clients, from reading literally over 1,000 books on relationships, psychology, and human behavior...
And we've put it into a comprehensive online program.
This is the EXACT system we use in our therapy practice.
The same system that created a waiting list for years.
The same system with a 92% success rate.
Here's What You're Going To Learn:
MODULE 1: Understanding What's REALLY Happening In Your Marriage
We'll break down the toxic cycle you're stuck in, the core dynamics in every relationship, and the myths about marriage that are keeping you trapped.
You'll finally SEE clearly—maybe for the first time ever—what's actually going on beneath all the fighting and hurt.
MODULE 2: Finally Understand Your Spouse—Their Wiring, Their Needs, What Makes Them Tick (So You Can Build Unshakeable Trust)
I'm going to teach you something that instantly transforms trust:
How to trust your partner by imagining that if YOU had their exact brain, their exact history, their exact experiences, you would make the exact same choices they do.
And how to become trustworthy by making promises and keeping them, over and over.
Imagine your spouse actually BELIEVING you when you say something, instead of questioning or doubting you.
MODULE 3: Communication That NEVER Triggers Defensiveness
You'll learn how to talk about what you need without starting a fight.
How to listen so your spouse actually feels heard.
How to turn conflict into connection.
Picture having a tough conversation and your spouse actually leaning IN instead of shutting down or attacking back.
MODULE 4: How To Manage Conflict—By Yourself
Because you can't control your spouse, but you CAN control the outcome.
You'll know exactly what to do when they're yelling, when they shut down, when they walk away.
And you'll stay calm, grounded, powerful.
Imagine the next time there's tension, YOU'RE the one who stays centered while they eventually come back to earth.
MODULE 5: Building a Maintenance Plan (So This Isn't Temporary—It's PERMANENT)
You'll know exactly what to do every single week to keep your marriage thriving.
Imagine a year from now, looking back at this moment and barely recognizing the relationship you had—because what you have NOW is so much better.
PLUS: You're Also Getting These Powerful Bonuses (Worth Over $1,135)
BONUS 1:
The Partner Assessment System
Our complete 67-point compatibility assessment so you know exactly who you are and understand your spouse on an entirely new level.
This is the same assessment we use with our $2,000/session private clients.
Value: $297
BONUS 2:
Monthly Live Coaching Calls with Bob & Sheri (3 MONTHS)
Ask us anything. Get personalized advice. Learn from other couples going through the same transformation.
These calls alone are worth the entire program.
Value: $497
BONUS 3:
Private Community Forum
You're not doing this alone. Connect with others who understand exactly what you're going through.
Share wins. Get support. Learn from people who are exactly where you are (and where you're going).
Value: $197
BONUS 4:
Complete Relationship Workbook
This is where the real transformation happens.
Action items and exercises for every single module. You'll learn exactly where you need to grow.
Value: $97
BONUS 5:
The 1-Hour Vacation Meditation
My secret weapon for staying calm.
A combination of progressive muscle relaxation, guided imagery, and meditation that will change your entire nervous system.
Value: $47
Total Bonus Value: $1,135
All included when you join today.
What Others Are Saying About Working With Bob & Sheri
"I Used To Be SOOOO Irritable—Everything My Wife Said Got Under My Skin"
Josh S. - Lincoln, Nebraska
"I thought I was the 'fixer,' unwilling to step out of my comfort zone, thinking 'I'm going to help everyone else change'... caused a lot of stress! That took a toll on me AND my family.
Working with Bob changed everything. I was able to get to the core of my 'why.' He helped me understand why I reacted the way I did—and once I saw that, change became surprisingly easy.
The irritability is GONE. Now I'm thinking of her more often. Now I'm so much more aware of how easy it is to actually please her, with just a few tiny actions! Now we're working together—and I'm finally actually listening and comprehending what she says.
The difference in our marriage is HUGE. She feels it. I feel it. Bob doesn't just give advice—he cares and gives you the tools and support that actually work!
And if it worked for me, it'll work for anyone who's ready to stop fighting and start rebuilding."
Here's what happened: Josh came in SO irritable. I helped him see his irritation in an entirely new light.
That's why understanding compatibility is SO important. It's not a test to prove you're incompatible—it's an outline for understanding another human being in every dimension relevant to relationships.
Josh UNDERSTANDS his wife now.
"Before Therapy, I Was Angry, Withdrawn, and Completely Shut Down"
Luke and Chloe K. - Lincoln, Nebraska (21+ years military)
"I'd spent over 21 years in the military and learned to bury everything—pain, fear, grief, even love. When I talked to my wife, the words never came out right. I'd get frustrated, snap, or just walk away. I didn't want to talk to anyone, and I didn't think anyone could really understand me.
Working with Bob changed all that. He didn't pressure me to talk—he gave me space until I wanted to. Over time, I learned how to say what I actually felt instead of blowing up or shutting down. I started understanding myself, and my wife started understanding me.
If you're on the fence about this course, I'd say this: you can spend years staying stuck, or you can learn the tools that finally let you breathe, speak, and connect again.
If it can save someone like me, it can save you too."
What I saw with Luke:
He has come a LONG way. He doesn't get anywhere near as angry, and when he does get angry, it doesn't last very long—not like before.
He understands himself infinitely better than he did before. He understands his wife far better than he ever imagined he could.
Everyone around him, especially Chloe, has noticed a huge change in him.
Most days, he is happy—and we could not have said that two years ago.
"I Remember When We JUST WOULDN'T TALK! ABOUT ANYTHING!"
Matt & Heather - Kearney, Nebraska
"We'd just avoid everything and it got worse and worse. I had NO IDEA how easy it really is to talk about what you need to... until we met Bob, and learned some simple skills.
Working with Bob has TRULY strengthened our marriage in so many ways.“
"I Was Just... Tired of It All"
Shay and Nick - Omaha, Nebraska
"Tired of arguing, overthinking, and trying to fix everything on my own. With Bob, I finally learned how to slow down and talk, without shutting down or blowing up.
I started understanding myself, setting boundaries, and letting go of that constant need to change people. Little by little, things got lighter."
Our Ironclad 30-Day "Full Confidence" Money-Back Guarantee
Here's how confident we are that this will work:
Go through the program. Apply what you learn. Do the work.
If after 30 days you don't feel more confident in your ability to transform your relationship, just email us.
We'll refund every penny. No questions asked.
You keep everything. The bonuses. The knowledge. All of it.
That's how sure we are.
You literally cannot lose.
Either your marriage transforms, or you get your money back.
You're At A Fork In The Road Right Now
You have two choices:
CHOICE #1: Do Nothing
Keep hoping your spouse will change. Keep having the same fights. Keep feeling invisible.
Watch your marriage slowly die.
Maybe you'll divorce. Maybe you'll stay together, but miserable.
Either way, you wake up five years from now with the same pain—or worse.
Your kids grow up watching you barely speak to each other. They learn that THIS is what marriage looks like.
And one day, lying in bed alone while your spouse sleeps in the other room, you'll think:
"I wish I had done something when I still had the chance."
CHOICE #2: Take Action Right Now
Be the one who breaks the pattern. Who starts. Who transforms this marriage from the inside out.
Not by changing your spouse. By changing YOU—which changes everything.
Three months from now, you're having coffee with your spouse. You're actually talking—really talking—and they reach across the table and take your hand.
"I don't know what's different," they say, "but I feel like I have you back."
Six months from now, you're lying in bed together, laughing at something stupid. They roll over and kiss you. And you realize: this is what you were fighting for.
A year from now, you look back at this moment—at the day you almost gave up—and you're so grateful you didn't.
Because you didn't just save your marriage. You created something better than it ever was before.
That version of your future is waiting for you.
But only if you take action right now.
Here's The Investment (And Why It's The Bargain Of A Lifetime)
Let me ask you something:
What would it be worth to save your marriage?
Think about what you'd lose if this doesn't work:
Years of loneliness, stuck in the same house with someone who feels like a stranger
The pain of watching your family split apart
The financial devastation of divorce (average cost: $15,000-$30,000)
The guilt of your kids asking why you're not together anymore
Starting over at 40, 50, 60—trying to date again, wondering if you'll ever find love
What would it be worth to avoid that?
Now, if you wanted to work with us privately:
Individual sessions are $1,000 per 90 minutes
Couples sessions with both of us are $2,000 per 90 minutes
Most couples need 10-20 sessions to see real transformation
That's $10,000 to $40,000.
And that's IF we had availability. Which we don't. Our private practice has had a waiting list for years.
But we created this program because we wanted to help more people. Because we're tired of watching marriages fall apart when we KNOW they can be saved.
So here's what we're doing:
You can get the ENTIRE Save Your Marriage system—the same proven method we use with our $2,000/session private clients—plus all the bonuses worth $1,135...
For just $300.
That's it. One-time payment. Lifetime access.
Less than a nice dinner and hotel for your anniversary.
Less than you'd spend on a new phone.
Less than the cost of two therapy sessions — and you'll finally get the kind of insight and direction most couples never experience in traditional therapy, where you spend every week putting out fires instead of following a clear, step-by-step plan to bring love and connection back fast.
You don't need years of talking.
You need the right roadmap — and we'll walk you through it together.
This Is Your Last Chance
To Save What You Have
Right now, as you're reading this, your marriage is either getting better or getting worse.
There is no standing still.
Every day you wait, the distance grows. The resentment builds. The hope fades.
But it doesn't have to be that way.
You don't need your spouse's permission to save your marriage.
You don't need them to "meet you halfway." You don't need couples therapy or years of counseling.
You just need to take the first step.
Join the Save Your Marriage program right now. Get instant access to all the modules, all the bonuses, everything you need to transform your relationship.
Try it for 30 days. Do the work. Apply what you learn.
And if you don't see results—if you don't feel more confident, more hopeful, more empowered—we'll give you every penny back.
But I'm willing to bet that won't happen.
Because I've watched this work for over 1,000 couples in the last 23 years.
And I've watched it work for couples who were way worse off than you are right now.
The only question is: Are you ready to be the one who saves this?
To your transformed marriage,
Bob & Sheri Neve
Licensed Independent Mental Health Practitioners and Marriage Experts
Founders, The Clearview Center
P.S. Remember: You risk nothing with our 30-day money-back guarantee. But you risk EVERYTHING if you do nothing. Your marriage needs you to take action today. Click the button above and let's get started.
P.P.S. Still not sure? Think about this: What will you tell yourself a year from now if nothing changes? Will you wish you had tried? Don't let that be your story.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if my spouse won't participate?
That's the entire point of this program. It only takes ONE person to transform a marriage. When you change how you show up, your spouse WILL respond differently. We've seen it happen thousands of times.
What if we're already separated or sleeping in separate rooms?
Some of our biggest success stories started exactly where you are. As long as you're still married and there's ANY willingness to try, this can work.
How long does it take to see results?
Most people notice shifts within the first 2-3 weeks. Real transformation typically happens within 60-90 days. But you'll feel different—more confident, more calm—almost immediately.
What if we've already tried therapy and it didn't work?
Traditional therapy often fails because it requires both people to do the work equally. This program is different—it focuses on what YOU can control. And it's based on 35 years of combined experience and a 92% success rate.
What if my situation is different? What if there's infidelity/addiction/abuse?
Every marriage is different, but the core principles remain the same. That said, if there's active abuse, your safety comes first—please reach out to us separately. For infidelity and addiction, this program will help you navigate those challenges with clarity and strength.
Is this religious-based?
No. But, we HAVE seen some miracles! While we both value faith immensely, our approach is grounded in psychology, neuroscience, and 35 years of clinical experience. It complements any faith—or none at all.
What if I'm the one who messed up? What if I'm the problem?
Then this program is PERFECT for you. Taking responsibility and changing yourself is the most powerful thing you can do. And we'll show you exactly how.
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Is This For You?
This IS For You If...
You're ready to build a real brand, not just another generic fashion label
You want to create something meaningful that customers actually connect with
You're willing to put in the work during the first 6 weeks to set up your foundation
You believe in providing genuine value and building emotional connections
You're coachable and ready to follow a proven system
You want to leverage brand meaning instead of competing on price
You're excited about building a brand with lasting cultural impact
You have creative vision but need clear direction
You're tired of watching others succeed while sitting on the sidelines
You understand that success requires implementation, not just information
This is NOT For You If...
You're looking for a "get rich quick" scheme with zero effort
You want to build a cheap product line with no brand meaning
You're not willing to invest time in the first 6 weeks to set up properly
You prefer to "figure it out yourself" rather than follow proven systems
You're looking for overnight success without putting in the work
You're not interested in building a real, sustainable brand
You're not willing to learn and adapt as the market changes
You want to cut corners and compromise on quality
You're not ready to take action and implement what you learn
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